This idea came to me as I was thinking about journaling. Well, the fact that I don’t keep a journal. My kids always want to hear stories about my life – growing up, vacations, funny stories, embarrassing stories, sad stories, pretty much anything!
I am the same way, I love to hear stories from my husband, my parents, my in-laws, my brothers, etc, etc… Isn’t it amazing how you can know someone your whole life, but still not know so many things?
So I was thinking about this conundrum – that I want to record this history for my children, but if I am not writing it down now, what makes me think that I’ll write it down in the future? Exactly. What it really means is that I am never going to do it.
And I don’t think I am alone – even just the idea of writing down my personal history is overwhelming!
Then it occurred to me – what better way to start collecting family histories than to set up a video camera at Thanksgiving – when we are all gathered together, and we can each take a few minutes to sit down and share a story.
To get things going, I have included a list of questions to answer. This list is taken directly from this link. This particular list was very convenient because it was already done! You can always add any more questions that interest you!
- What is your full name? Why did your parents select this name for you? Did you have a nickname?
- When and where were you born?
- How did your family come to live there?
- Were there other family members in the area? Who?
- What was the house (apartment, farm, etc.) like? How many rooms? Bathrooms? Did it have electricity? Indoor plumbing? Telephones?
- Were there any special items in the house that you remember?
- What is your earliest childhood memory?
- Describe the personalities of your family members.
- What kind of games did you play growing up?
- What was your favorite toy and why?
- What was your favorite thing to do for fun (movies, beach, etc.)?
- Did you have family chores? What were they? Which was your least favorite?
- Did you receive an allowance? How much? Did you save your money or spend it?
- What was school like for you as a child? What were your best and worst subjects? Where did you attend grade school? High school? College?
- What school activities and sports did you participate in?
- Do you remember any fads from your youth? Popular hairstyles? Clothes?
- Who were your childhood heroes?
- What were your favorite songs and music?
- Did you have any pets? If so, what kind and what were their names?
- What was your religion growing up? What church, if any, did you attend?
- Were you ever mentioned in a newspaper?
- Who were your friends when you were growing up?
- What world events had the most impact on you while you were growing up? Did any of them personally affect your family?
- Describe a typical family dinner. Did you all eat together as a family? Who did the cooking? What were your favorite foods?
- How were holidays (birthdays, Christmas, etc.) celebrated in your family? Did your family have special traditions?
- How is the world today different from what it was like when you were a child?
- Who was the oldest relative you remember as a child? What do you remember about them?
- What do you know about your family surname?
- Is there a naming tradition in your family, such as always giving the firstborn son the name of his paternal grandfather?
- What stories have come down to you about your parents? Grandparents? More distant ancestors
- Are there any stories about famous or infamous relatives in your family?
- Have any recipes been passed down to you from family members?
- Are there any physical characteristics that run in your family?
- Are there any special heirlooms, photos, bibles or other memorabilia that have been passed down in your family?
- What was the full name of your spouse? Siblings? Parents?
- When and how did you meet your spouse? What did you do on dates?
- What was it like when you proposed (or were proposed to)? Where and when did it happen? How did you feel?
- Where and when did you get married?
- What memory stands out the most from your wedding day?
- How would you describe your spouse? What do (did) you admire most about them?
- What do you believe is the key to a successful marriage?
- How did you find out your were going to be a parent for the first time?
- Why did you choose your children’s names?
- What was your proudest moment as a parent?
- What did your family enjoy doing together?
- What was your profession and how did you choose it?
- If you could have had any other profession what would it have been? Why wasn’t it your first choice?
- Of all the things you learned from your parents, which do you feel was the most valuable?
- What accomplishments were you the most proud of?
- What is the one thing you most want people to remember about you?
I printed the list out on cardstock (double sided) and then laminated it. If you want a printable version, you can click here: Family History Sheet.
The whole point of this project is to be unintimidating, so I would recommend encouraging just one question (two at the most) per person. My intention is to set this up in the front room at my parents’ house that doesn’t get a lot of traffic. I will have the video camera trained on a chair, and as family members decide, they can sit in the chair and use the remote to press record after they have chosen their question. This way it is completely independent, and people can do it as they feel inclined throughout the day.
If you start now and do this at every Thanksgiving (or Christmas or any other holiday where lots of family are gathered), just think of how much family history you can collect over the years!